After Allison ran into Dan Mahony on Second Street, she went to get a cup
of coffee with him at the downstairs lunch counter in the Cal Neva. So, at the
end of my walk, I made sure I walked along Second Street and back up to the Cal
Neva. While I didn’t get a coffee at the lunch counter downstairs, I tried to
consider the themes of the novel as I walked back, especially those prevalent
at that point. Allison and Dan walked back in silence—while this may not seem
significant, I thought it went well with the idea of gender roles. I think
Allison was hesitant to reveal herself to Dan because of her past experiences
with men. She expected Dan to be dominant and controlling—as he naturally isn’t
this way, the conversation was lacking. Allison was too timid to contribute
anything about herself, and Dan was trying to let her have the opportunity to
do so. Dan was distancing himself from the typical male role, at least in
Allison’s mind, and she was uncomfortable because of this.
This was further
expressed when they sat down at the restaurant and Allison stated that “She
knew the cook, and felt better that he was there” (page 145). Her desire for a
familiar figure explicitly demonstrates Allison’s need for protection. She was
afraid, in a way, of Dan—not because he had done anything to suggest that he
would hurt her, but because of her past with men who had pursued her. Allison
only knew how to react to a certain type of male role—Dan did not fit this
type, so Allison closed up.
As I walked back to
the Cal Neva, I thought about the prevalence of these gender roles in our
society today. I definitely think they still exist—my best guy friends have
made too many “women jokes” around me for me to believe otherwise. I think that
this is the case because as long as men and women are different, there will be
a natural “role” that each tends to uphold. This idea has never particularly
bothered me, and this was reaffirmed as I studied the men and women I passed on
my walk. In my opinion, women and men complement one another, as long as
neither takes their so called role to the extreme. This happened to Allison,
which partly why she had such a skewed view of herself. However, I like to
think that her coffee date with Dan was when things began to look up for her.
And all it took was one walk.
Link to a map of where I walked:
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